It is perceived as a climate of fear and a crime of violence. Yet for the survivor it is much more. The anguish, shame, and fear are long lasting. The victim's coping skills may depend upon several different factors. The strength of their support system, their strength of self, their age, and how they are treated as a victim. One judge dismissed a sexual assault charge because he believed the woman who was dazed after the incident "did not put up enough resistance." Self-blame is the most common of short term and long-term effects and functions as an avoidance coping skill. Victims of sexual assault are more likely to develop thoughts of or attempt suicide in children and adults. Other effects may include depression, posttraumatic stress disorder, substance abuse, anxiety, eating disorder and increased libido that may result in promiscuous behavior. Research has suggested that the psychological effects generally are worse than the physical and financial losses. Defense mechanisms may include denial, dissociation and suppression. All these may temporarily provide escape that the victim may alleviate the distress of their attack.
It is impossible to understand what one is coping with who is a victim. In desiring to help, we must in every way support them. Be vocal and visible. There are ways you may help. If in doubt, ask the one you are seeking to help. Be alert for avenues of opportunities. Here are some resources that may be of help: 2 Corinthians 1:3-4; AARDVARC (Abuse, Rape, & Domestic Violence Aid & Resource Collection); NSVRC (National Sexual Violence Resource Center); RAINN (Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network); If you go to the OVC (Office of Victims of Crime) website, www.ojp.usdoj.gov they will have links to all these websites that you may look at.
