Society views poverty as a major contributor toward neglect of children. While this is a major factor, another point I believe is the real primary cause, is cultural. Societies define neglect according to community norms. In a melting pot such as our country, it is difficult to standardize this area of concern when so many groups view 'norms' differently. Each nationality rears their children according to unique set of values.
There are a number of areas that are involved in this topic; physical, medical, emotional, nutritional, abandonment, and educational. Obviously physical neglect is the most noticeable. The effects of neglect are many and include developmental delay or disability, stunted physical or mental development. All involve grief and the multitude of emotions that develop because of trauma.
Some children may respond with lethargy, depression, low frustration tolerance, and isolating themselves because of feeling unworthy. Other children may become chronically angry at the world around them. They may build within themselves distrust in adults; reflect poor skills relating to others, finally unable to cope in a healthy way when a person or thing of value is lost. It is not difficult to imagine how poorly children cope when neglected. How do we prevent this? Choose our mates thoughtfully, and bringing children into the world with equal forethought and planning. Instruct them in an attentive, loving, affectionate environment whereby they may learn to cope well with the positive and negative events in life. Teach by precept and example.
