Robert Wesley (Bob) Oldham, IIwas born in Memphis, Tennessee on January 16, 1954 the son of the late Robert Wesley and Wilda Gean Fowlkes Oldham.On July 8, 1977 he was united in marriage to Debra Ann Pugh, who survives. Earlier this year, he and wife renewed there vows as Fred and Wilma Flintstone at the Little White Chapel in Las Vegas, Nevada.Mr. Oldham was a Chief Engineer of the towboat Kelly Lee for Magnolia Marines Transportation Company. Mr. Oldham departed this life on Sunday, April 10, 2011 at the age of 57 years, 2 months, 25 days.In addition to his wife, he is survived by 2 sons, Wes Oldham of Counce, Tennessee and Shane Oldham of Collierville, Tennessee; a daughter, Melissa Jackson of Counce, Tennessee; 4 grandchildren, Taylor "2Man" Oldham, Jakob "Peanut" Oldham, Jadea "LittleBug" Jackson, and Layla "EarlyBird" Oldham; 3 sisters, Betty Taylor, Rosia Phillips and Theresa Oldham all of Jacksonville, North Carolina.In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by a sister, Barbara Shultz.